Okay Ladies,
Is this your first time hiring a male stripper for a friend or sister's
bachelorette party? Wondering whether you should go to one of the local male
revues (male strip clubs)? Or how about having the entertainment come to
you? Where to begin? Ok, take a deep breathe, this is supposed to be fun,
remember???
Ok, here are some helpful tips from the pros:
1. Keep the bride-to-be in mind at all times. What does SHE like? Is she
crazy and wild ... Or ... Shy and mild?
When you call to book male strippers be sure to mention how your
bachelorette girl will respond. Will she go wild and crazy, or would a more
laid back, mellow performance be best?
2. Notify everyone involved in the bachelorette party asap of your
intentions. Let them know you plan to hire a male stripper. Find out how
everyone feels about this. Some girls will be like, "Bring it on!!!" While
others may prefer to "sit that part out."
3. Pick a date as early as possible. This way you can have enough time for
planning.
4. As soon as you have your date set, book your dancer. The earlier the
better. Male strippers that are in high demand are going to get booked early
and often. It's very common for male strippers to travel all over
doing 3, 4, or even 5 parties or more in a single night. So BOOK EARLY! At time of booking, the company will take a credit card to book the show over the phone, and the remainder of the show fee will be paid in cash to the entertainer on his or her arrival. Please note, all credit card charges are non refundable, non-negotiable and the only instance that a credit card would be refunded is, if an entertainer did not show up because of an emergency situation.
5. Have a rough time frame of your schedule for that night ... But be
flexible. Did you know that nearly 80% of all bachelorette parties request
male strippers on a Saturday night between 9:00 and 10:00. Needless to say
that if hundreds of bachelorette parties are taking place at the same time
you might need to be slightly flexible about what time your male stripper
arrives.
Instead of saying, "We'd like a male stripper to arrive at 9:30," instead
say, "We'd like a male stripper sometime between 9:00 and 10:00. Just no
later than 10:30 to start ok? We have plans for afterwards."
A customer-service oriented entertainment agency will work with you to make
sure your night is a success. Just give a little to get a little.
6. Have a "look" you are after and trust the agency to find the right guy.
All too often girls will look at male strippers on a website and say,
"That's him. That's the guy we want." But what if he's booked? The truth is
that if he's booked, NO agency will be able to get him for you. If he's
booked ... He's booked.
Your better off saying, "We like a white guy with short hair and a nice
build" or "A latin guy..." or "A bad boy"
Also, here's a TIP: Often times great dancers do NOT have their pics on
websites. They often work in Corporate America and cannot risk having their
boss or clients discover their "weekend gig." So don't be alarmed if you get
a dancer who's not on the website. We're sure you'll love him all the same.
7. Have a theme in mind, or leave it up to the dancer's choice ... It's up
to you.
For example, these are popular choices:
Police Officer
Fireman
Pizza Delivery
GQ - Business man
Construction Worker
Party Guest
Hotel Security
8. On the night of the bachelorette party have some drinks, loosen up, and
get ready. You'll want to have a large empty space of floor room for the
male stripper to perform in. Also, get a chair in the center of the room to
sit the bachelorette. We call this the 'HOT SEAT."
9. Plenty of dollars ... The more the better. You can place these anywhere
... In his g-string or in her bra (where he'll fish them out with his
teeth.) Again, the more dollars the better. Our dancers bring change
with them, incase you didn't get a chance to run to the bank. Remember
the dancer's motto............THE BIGGER THE BILL, THE BIGGER THE THRILL!!
10. Have your cameras ready and have plenty of film. Your bachelorette will
be in many "compromising" and "embarrassing" positions and you'll want to
remember these fun times forever. So take lots of pics.
And remember...have fun!!!!